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The tip for young men
Hey, I have a lot
of respect for all you guys who like to eat pussy because there
are too few of you out there. And I'm not the only woman who says
this. Furthermore, some of you guys who are giving it the old
college try are not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson
will help you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head,
she's found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly.
This is one rare customer and she knows it. She won't even tell
her girlfriends about it or that guy will become the most popular
man in town. So, remember, most guys can fuck, and those who can
usually do it satisfactorily, but the guy who gives good head,
he's got it made.
Most women are shy about their bodies. Even if you've got the
world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, she's going to worry
about how you like her body. Tell her it's beautiful, tell her
which parts you like best, tell her anything, but get her to
trust you enough to let you down between her legs.
Now stop and look at what you see. Beautiful, isn't it? There is
nothing that makes a woman more unique than her pussy. I know.
I've seen plenty of them. They come in all different sizes,
colors and shapes; some are tucked inside like a little girl's
cunnie and some have thick luscious lips that come out to greet
you. Some are nested in brushes of fur and others are covered
with transparent fuzz. Appreciate your woman's unique qualities
and tell her what makes her special.
Women are a good deal more verbal than men, especially during
love-making. They also respond more to verbal love, which means,
the more you talk to her, the easier it will be to get her off.
So all the time you're petting and stroking her beautiful pussy,
talk to her about it.
Now look at it again. Gently pull the lips apart and look at her
inner lips, even lick them if you want to. Now spread the tops of
her pussy up until you can find her clit. Women have clits in all
different sizes, just like you guys have different sized cocks.
It doesn't mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it
means is more of her is hidden underneath her foreskin.
Whenever you touch a woman's pussy, make sure your finger is wet.
You can lick it or moisten it with juices from inside her. Be
sure, by all means, to wet it before you touch her clit because
it doesn't have any juices of it's own and it's extremely
sensitive. Your finger will stick to it if it's dry and that
hurts. But you don't want to touch her clit anyway. You have to
work up to that. Before she becomes aroused, her clit is too
delicate to be handled.
Approach her pussy slowly. Women, even more so than men, love to
be teased. The inner part of her thigh is her most tender spot.
Lick it, kiss it, make designs on it with the tip of your tongue.
Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Make her
anticipate it.
Now lick the crease where her leg joins her pussy. Nuzzle your
face into her bush. Brush your lips over her slit without
pressing down on it to further excite her. After you've done this
to the point where your lady is bucking up from her seat and
she's straining to get more of you closer to her, then put your
lips right on top of her slit.
Kiss her, gently, then harder. Now use your tongue to separate
her pussy lips and when she opens up, run your tongue up and down
between the layers of pussy flesh. Gently spread her legs more
with your hands. Everything you do with a woman you're about to
eat must be done gently.
Tongue-fuck her. This feels define. It also teases the hell out
of her because by now she wants some attention given to her clit.
Check it out. See if her clit has gotten hard enough to peek out
of it's covering. If so, lick it. If you can't see it, it might
still be waiting for you underneath. So bring your tongue up tot
he top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may barely
experience it's presence. But even if you can't feel the tiny
pearl, you can make it rise by licking the skin that covers it.
Lick hard now and press into her skin.
Gently pull the pussy lips away and flick your tongue against the
clit, hood covered or not. Do this quickly. This should cause her
legs to shudder. When you sense she's getting up there toward
orgasm, make your lips into an O and take the clit into your
mouth. Start to suck gently and watch your lady's face for her
reaction. If she can handle it, begin to suck harder. If she digs
it, suck even harder. Go with her. If she lifts her pelvis into
the air with the tension of her rising orgasm, move with her,
don't fight her. Hang on, and keep your hot mouth on her clit.
Don't let go. That's what she'll be saying too: 'Don't stop.
Don't ever stop!'
There's a reason for that, most men stop too soon. Just like with
cock sucking, this is something worth learning about and worth
learning to do well. I know a man who's a lousy fuck, simply
lousy, but he can eat pussy like nobody I know and he never has
trouble getting a date. Girls are falling all over him.
But back to your pussy eating session...There's another thing you
can do to intensify your woman's pleasure. You can finger-fuck
her while she's enjoying your clit-licking talents. Before,
curing or after. She'll really like it. In addition to the
erogenous zones surrounding her clit, a woman has another
extremely sensitive area at the roof of her vagina. This is what
you rub up against when you're fucking her. Well, since your cock
is pretty far away from your mouth, your fingers will have to do
the fucking.
Take two fingers. One is too skinny and three is too wide and
therefore can't get deep enough. Make sure they're wet so you
don't irritate her skin. Slide them inside, slowly at first, then
a little faster. Fuck her with them rhythmically. Speed up only
when she does. Listen to her breathing. She'll let you know what
to do. If you're sucking her clit and finger-fucking her at the
same time, you're giving her far more stimulation than you would
be giving her with your cock alone. So you can count on it that
she's getting high on this. If there's any doubt, check her out
for symptoms. Each woman is unique. You may have one who's
nipples get hard when she's excited or only when she's having an
orgasm. Your girl might flush red or begin to tremble. Get to
know her symptoms and you'll be a more sensitive lover.
When she starts to have an orgasm, for heaven's sakes, don't let
go of that clit. Hang in there for the duration. When she starts
to come down from the first orgasm, press your tongue along the
underside of the clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move
your tongue in and out of her cunt. If your fingers are inside,
move them a little too, gently though, things are extremely
sensitive just now.
If you play your cards right, you'll get some multiple orgasms
this way. A woman stays excited for a full hour after she's had
an orgasm. Do you realize the full impact of that information?
The potential? One woman was clocked at 56 orgasms at one
sitting. Do you know what effect you would have on a woman you
gave 56 orgasms too? She'd be yours as long as you wanted her.
The last advice I have for you is this: After you've made her
come, made her your slave by giving her the best head she's ever
had, don't leave her alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke her
body, caress her breasts. Keep making love to her quietly until
she's come all the way down. A man can get off and go to sleep in
the same breath and feel no remorse, no sense of loss. But a
woman by nature requires some sensitivity from her lover in those
first few moments after sex.
Oral sex can be the most exciting sexual experiences you can
have. But it's what you make it. Take your time, practice often,
pay attention to your lover's signals, and most of all, enjoy
yourself.
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